BSM needs a Catholic curriculum
Week after week we hear the groans from fellow students, “Why do we have to go to mass today?,” or better yet, “I’m just skipping mass and coming late.” The irony of these complaints are not lost on us. As Catholic school students for 12 years and counting, we knew what we signed up for. We knew we were enrolling and paying for a Catholic, parochial high school when both our parents and we chose Benilde St. Margaret’s. With not only religion classes but also services scattered throughout the year, the Catholic faith is prevalent within the halls of BSM.
With this being said, we are tired of listening to ignorant arguments from students that believe religion classes and mass are a waste of their time. Sure, maybe you didn’t want to come here. Maybe your parents forced you to, maybe you ‘grew out’ of your faith, and maybe you wish you could take more ‘relevant’ classes instead of classes such as Christian Vocations. But why ruin the experience for everyone else? Personally, we like going to mass during the school day.
We’ll be the first to admit that we don’t always pay attention when we should be, or sing when it’s time to. But it’s a break where we can finally breathe, where we can dwell on whatever is going on that day and not be bombarded with tests or lessons while still living out our faith. However, with more than a few of our classmates missing from the all-school masses and the prevalent complaints within the student body, it takes away from what mass in the school day is all about.
The student body is not entirely made up of Catholics—we know that. The student body is not all self-identifying Christians. Furthermore, some of the student body do not even believe in a God. Yet more often than not, we hear students bash Benilde St. Margaret’s basic Christian values and the moral grounds on which it was founded on. As a student who came from a conservative, all-girls high school, I, Danielle, can first handedly tell you that Benilde St. Margaret’s is as liberal as Catholic schools come. With tolerance for all religions and people of all faiths, students are told they do not have to participate in the prayers said during the morning announcements or the masses held throughout the school year—yet they must respect them.
The Catholic church created Catholic schools with a purpose to evangelize the faith. So why would Benilde-St. Margaret’s not make all students take required religion classes? Otherwise, the curriculum would not follow what the Catholic church promotes. Even if you do not plan on becoming Catholic, Benilde-St. Margaret’s is––and always has been–– a Catholic school dedicated to the teachings of the church and the hope to extend the faith to others. These classes not only teach students a deeper understanding of their faith and allow them to question, but also teaches them simple morals that are the basis of a well-rounded society. Religion classes and masses teach the student body how to live a life following the Catholic values––whether or not they chose to continue to practice these is their choice.
We are not asking for a sudden change in how many students skip masses or participate in their religion classes—and we are certainly not expecting a lack of griping on mass days. However, Benilde-St. Margaret’s has every right to promote the Catholic faith and their teachings. All we are asking for is a little respect for the faith our Catholic school is based on and for the students who wish to practice these values.
Ray Rugarber(Danielle's grandfather) • Nov 12, 2014 at 2:11 pm
Kate & Danielle, You are to be commended as your paper was well written, insightful and informative. Aware of it or not, the article focused on two issues affecting not only the school but, when one reflects on your observations, is a commentary on a changing society and specifically the secularization of society.
As secularization grows and religiousity decreases, the moral fabric that holds society together is pulled apart and leads to the two lead off questions “Why do we have to go to mass today” and “I’m just skipping mass and coming late.” Simply put, religion is no longer important to many individuals. Secularization also leads to the second issue, i.e., respect or, more accurately, the lack thereof and more appropriately called disrespect. The danger poised by disrespect is that it lies on the cusp of quickly turning to intollerance and countless examples can be seen today not only in this country but all around the world as well.
You are both to be commended for expressing your views in public and also so eloquently. God bless you.
Richard E.Carr, Sr. • Nov 3, 2014 at 10:02 pm
Kate and Danielle, you did an excellent job giving your opinion and speaking for countless students who think the same thing but are afraid to speak out. We are in our mid 70″s and we have seen this country’s core morale values be degraded by our leaders. It is up to you young people to step up and be counted. A Catholic education gives you a god foundation for your future life, regardless of your religious convictions. The youth of this nation “MUST” be counted if this county is to become strong again.
We are very proud of you girls, especially coming from Danielle, our granddaughters.
Again, we are VERY PROUD OF YOU BOTH and we will keep you in our prayers.
Dick & Pat Carr
michael hawkins • Nov 3, 2014 at 8:25 pm
As an adult in the building, I always appreciated Mass days.
I was also grateful that the worst thing going on for an hour with
1200 kids on bleachers and metal chairs was that someone might
have been chewing gum.
Actually Mass days are some of my fondest and most
meaningful memories.
M. Hawkins
Dave Roy • Nov 3, 2014 at 7:34 pm
Amen. If you don’t want to go to a religion class or attend mass, then tell your parents. this is what they signed you up for. For a reason. Respect those who feel the faith and try to live it out. That is what BSM is trying to deliver.
Nicole Sauer • Nov 3, 2014 at 6:57 pm
Thank you! I felt the same way when I attended BSM.
When people complain that the Catholic school they signed up to go to is actually Catholic, then there’s something wrong there. Mass days should be more than a fashion show and Catholic schools are not just good schools for rich kids–they are a place for learning how to live the gospel with your life.
That being said, it does not mean that the religion classes and their curriculum could not use a little revision. Many were not engaging nor did all of them help me grow in my faith.
Effort is needed on both sides to solve this problem.
Jenny Pettis • Nov 3, 2014 at 2:51 pm
That is a lovely, well-written article, Danielle! Blessings to you.